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I'm a Jesus lover, business owner of Simply Becoming and Blue Room Publications.  I'm a Master's level counselor.  I gently lead adult-adolescent girls back to truth & healing through counseling and prayer.

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Angry Mom

There are not enough tears I could shed. There are not enough sorries that could be said. It’s been a long time since then. My youngest is 13 now. He asked if it was before he was born. He didn’t think of me that way. Thankful, I breathed a sigh of relief. They all agreed they don’t see me as angry. They didn’t even remember it and tried guessing when I was. This was not a game I wanted to play. I sat there in tears, but so thankful. Thankful they didn’t know. Thankful I didn’t “wreck” them. Thankful. But I knew. I knew I was angry for a time, and that broke my heart. 

Despite my emotions. I will praise. Turning negative emotions into praise.

After dinner, the Fruit of the Spirit came up as we chatted. Somehow that discussion lead to anger. I’ll tell you what I told them (this time I’ll try not to cry). Tears streamed down my face, as I confessed to my kids that there was a season I lacked self-control. I’m not proud of it. I was angry, not abusive. Just angry. Probably why I’m familiar with the Fruit of the Spirit. I spent a lot of time there. Praying for those attributes over my life, and I wasn’t leaving until I saw some growth. The only alternative I knew at the time was to respond in anger. I needed those fruits, and I needed them yesterday. I didn’t know the Fruit was the remedy to my anger. I just knew I needed help. 

I shared with my boys that God’s kindness leads us to repentance. My angry moments finally changed when they broke my heart. Through tears I told the boys, sometimes a broken heart is good for us. 

I’m like you. I don’t want my heart broken. Not at all. But like the song, “Lord, break my heart for what breaks yours,” my anger broke His heart. And it definitely broke mine as well. Repentance is God’s kindness towards us. For that reason, I’m okay if God breaks my heart every once in a while. 

Later as we gathered the dishes, my son said, “Mom, are you okay? You’ve been really emotional today.” 

Through tears, I said, “Yeah, I’m okay. Just grateful.” 

Repentance changes things. It changes us. 

My angry moments finally changed when they broke my heart. Through tears I told the boys, sometimes a broken heart is good for us. 

I’m leading two interactive 90-minute sessions that will offer practical KEYS to combat anger. We will dive into the Word of God and offer everyday tactical skills. You’ll be challenged and called out deeper, as I walk you through the healing process to UNLOCK the chains of anger. You can join us today!

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Hi, I'm REBECCA.
Your PRAYER WARRIOR+ New COUNSELOR.

I get to help you BECOME emotionally fit as we let God remind you who you are, what I see in you, who you are created to be... and so much more. And let's just say, "It's JOY!" Pure joy! I was made to remind women, of all ages, who they are, the lies they are believing and the truth... And it's JOY all-around as you get a hold of the truth and run with it. 

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